I just got home from welcoming the twins to their new home. I stayed with Summer for 3 days while she got used to the 2 new little ones. Little Autumn is still in the nicu. She has to stay until her oxygen level is at a certain level. What little miracles these girls are and how dear they are. The boys were estatic and I think mauling is going to be the biggest problem!
It was very fun, and hard at the same time. It was really hard to stay with them because when people don't do things your way,( because of course your way is always the best way! : ) Summer and Troy have a very different style than I do. They are more seat of your pants and I really like structure. I think I have a lot of Obc tendancies... example I think you should sit down to the table and have dinner together, with talking and sharing. Meals at their home seem like a cafeteria. I don't like the disrespectful way everyone talks to each other, but then everyone seems to know that the others love them so I guess that's what is important. IT seems to work for them. I found myself being very judgemental and not as loving as I want to be when I am there. I think people really need the gospel in their home, and there is no thought of that there. I really felt that lack. I really need some structure. When my family was young I got very harried without structure.
